So hope I can interest some kinky/tango people with this new adventure!
Passion (connection), letting go and feeling safe are the most important things in tango and as is bdsm right? So I think it’s a amazing combination to explore around and what u like.. feeling the connection and maybe bring it to a other level.. or not it’s all up to u.
In KitKatclub “tango rouge” Dancing in the basement of the club, above the “normal kink party with legendary techno offcourse. “not my favorite” but doable if u see want the club can offer.. art (really really amazing the club is like a art gallery), fooddds, sauna and swimming pool it’s all there.. I lost my way so many times haha
And how many people it attracts.. there for also quite busy and the concent in the club is for sure not like how you can find it in the Netherlands hahah much less strict so be aware and know what u want.
Tango in lingerie.. shibari (if u ask me 👅) is super fun, u can feel free without judgement, lights are dempt and if u want take a break and look what’s above. It’s free to do what u want, so seeing people having sex, smoking and being on drugs looks all quite normal.. I wish I had more time!
I saw a glimpse of wax play performance “very sexy 🫠 ” some ideas for the next adventure hahaha
On with the tango..
Breath singchronizes, deep embrace .. everything fits on the right place and feels safe and secure.. arms firm around me and I feel I can just follow.. he knows the steps I feel it already in his posture “we are starting” and I let go.. if something like this happens I come home lay in bed like “Cinderella after the ball” truly no joke haha
So while dancing I learned some figures that I didn’t know before “then u know that’s a good dancer 😉”
A small lesson that dance teaches me
it’s so so important not only in tango altho it comes more forward, if the embrace of your partner sloppy or disconnect in one or the other way u will not have a great dance. For a great dance u need to feel safe to let go. You can only feel safe if u have the feeling that u will be supported in “unstable or just figures/steps” because you need to feel the other to know what to do. Besides that u always need to stand on your own feet, and be able to support your own body while dancing, you are a connection not a burden for each other 😉
What makes kinky tango different?
Well the lingerie offcourse, if you like watching tango with clothes this is a totally different experience, my take on it “sensual burlesque between 2 persons”
It’s accepted to be more sensual. I did noticed that people can “think” quite quickly that u maybe want to spice things up, because u danced already very sensual. And it’s important to know what u want.. I’m not as good in that.. mostly to curious. But it’s good place to practice your boundaries.
For example.. I had such great dances with this person, after I think 10 dances I felt horny and hyped up because I never felt this like that before while dancing .. it’s crazy.. but altho I felt the connection with this person didn’t mend I especially wanted something from him other then just dancing.. I needed to let that know probably.. but I didn’t so after a France kiss and holding hand walking through the club I took my distance to let it know.. my mind just says (what if he doesn’t want to dance with me anymore 🙃 it feels so silly but it’s true .. there are the traumas back, making there way in my daily life.
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